Earlier today a member of my fitness Inner Circle put up the
following on a private discussion board. It’s so powerful I’ve
decided to send to you – followed by my comments:
Subject: Thank you, Matthew
Message: I am writing this because I feel my story needs to be told.
I started using Psycho-Cybernetics late last year. In that time, my
wife decided she wanted a divorce, took my children, and I felt terrible
for a while.
Bad, huh. But that is not where it ends.
Now, I realize that those failures needed to happen to spur me on to greater
things. My marriage was growing increasingly stale as I sought self-improve-
ment and my wife was content in her misery. My servo-mechanism, I believe,
led us to go our separate ways. Now, my finances are getting back on track
and my career is taking off like a rocket.
I have gone to Soldier Boards and was named January’s Soldier of the Month
for my unit, 2nd Quarter Soldier of the Quarter for the Battalion, and now I’ve
been named the Brigade’s Soldier of the Quarter and I am in the running for
Soldier of the Year. I would like to credit you and Dr. Maltz for your help in
getting me on the right track. I realize that even though I went through my
ordeals alone, I had plenty of help.
Thank you, Matthew Furey, and may God bless you.
M.F. Thank you, A.M. More important though, congratulations on seeing
reality for what it is. When you’re in success mode – you interpret the so-
called negative as leading you toward your goals. It may hurt, it may sting –
but it is all for the best.
I have two people in my Fearless Success Coaching program who have
experenced or gone through very similar circumstances and BOTH will
tell you they are all the better for it. In relationships, it is tough when
one person wants to grow and the other wants to cling.
Grab a hand full of water sometime. Then squeeze your hand tight and see
how much is left. This is an important metaphor to remember about most
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