Many people have an adversarial relationship
with money. They see money as the master;
themselves as the servant. Yet, in order to take
charge of your life – this image must be reversed.
You are the MASTER – money is your servant.
You’ve got to see yourself as BIGGER than money.
Not in an egotistical, big-headed way – but rather
in an ‘I have the ability to choose how much or how
little I want’ way.
When the bills pile up and frustration sets in – you
can choose to rise above this feeling; you can choose
to be in control of your emotional state, no matter
what is going on around you.
It’s not all that hard to do either. You can laugh in the
face of pain, accept it and use it as an ally – or you can
fight against the pain and make it worse.
People with an adversarial relationship with money are
always fighting with it. They’re mad when they pay their
bills. When they write a check their body is tense, they
stop breathing – there’s nothing positive about the
On the other hand, those who MASTER money – they pay
their bills with a sense of gratitude. They give thanks for
the money they have and what they are allowed to do
with it. They give thanks for the things they are able to
I started doing this many moons ago – long before I had
much to be grateful for. I was led to change my relationship
with money when, one day I took note of how my shoulders
and neck raised and my back stiffened when I wrote a check.
I noted how I stopped breathing. How I put a frown on my face
and clenched my teeth together. Even how, at times, I got sweaty
or cold palms.
All of these tension formations on my face and body were
blocking the flow – and I didn’t even realize it. I thought it
was ALL about the thoughts I had on the subject; or even
worse, those who were supposedly controlling me from the
Yet, to examine your body and the tensions in it – well, it’s
a wonderful way to know what your relationship is on any
T. Harv Eker says that if you give him five minutes to speak
with you he can predict your financial future. He’s absolutely
right. Yet, another truth is – most of the time no conversation
needs to take place. Observe posture; observe breathing
pattern; observe range of facial expressions (many adults have
2 or 3 and they’re maxed out); observe, if you can, the energy
coming off the body of the person – and you’ll know what is
really going on.
Hearing someone speak – and listening to what is said and how
it is said – yes, that’s another factor. For example, you may have
had the experience of dining out, and when the waitress brings
you your bill, she says, “Here’s the damage.’
Who taught you that idiocy?
A bill is not damage. It’s nothing more than an amount I am
being asked to pay for a service that was rendered. I’m happy
to pay. I’m glad to pay. Whenever a waitress comes to with a
line like, “Here’s the damage,” – I smile and say, “I don’t pay
for damage. Bring me something else please.”
This turns the situation around real fast.
Never forget that every mind is both a broadcasting and receiving
station. We are continually sending out signals and receiving signals
– whether we know it or not. And the stronger the signal is on the
positive scale – the more positive energy is attracted to it. The more
negative the signal the more negative energy is attracted.
This is precisely why you want to eliminate an adversarial relationship
with money. The more negative you are about it – when getting paid or
when paying somoene else – the worse your financial situation will be.
Some months ago, on a Friday night, I took my wife, Zhannie, and our
kids to see a belly dancer at a Persian restaurant. Normally we go on
Saturday nights – but we wanted to see the performer on Friday as
well – so we decided to go for it all.
When the Friday night bellydancer began I took out a few ones and
handed them to my kids. I prodded them to give her a tip once she’d
finished her first number. Halfway through the second number, Frank
went out to tip the lady. She took the money in her hand instead of letting him
put it in her outfit (the normal way). She didn’t thank him for the tip. Made
no eye contact.
And worst of all – she dropped the bill on the floor.
I was horrified. I couldn’t believe what I saw. I turned to Zhannie and
said, “Last tip she gets from us. She has no respect for money.”
A few more people came forth and gave tips. She conducted herself
the same way. Take money. No gratitude. Drop money on floor.
Okay, what about the Saturday night belly dancer? Well, let me
say that she gets a ton of tips. Virtually every table in the place
coughs up the dough. Young kids; adult men; adult women. She
Do I even need to tell you why?
Okay, I will. When she dances and someone brings her a tip, she
allows human contact. She lets the child or the adult insert the tip
into her clothing. She smiles and dances and laughs the entire time
this is happening. She makes eye contact and thanks the person for
the tip. Then she does a little celebration dance to show she
respects the person who gave the money.
That’s the way to play the game. That’s the way to dance.
Now, from this alone I can predict each dancer’s financial future.
Even so, with my business and marketing know-how, I could take
either lady and make her a fortune beyond what she herself can
Why? Because my relationship to money is non-adversarial. Money is
not something I fight with or against. Not only do I know how to attract
it by being in front of someone – I also know how to attract it from
someone who lives thousands and thousands of miles away. Someone
I have never met or spoken to. I know how to attract it whether I am
dancing (working) or not; whether or not I’m sleeping; whether or not
I am on vacation.
How’d you like to learn how to do that?
I’m going to reveal how at my October seminar – The Science of
Super-Human Marketing. Who knows – I might even have one of the
belly dancers there to learn. If she listens and applies what I teach –
she could be dancing all over the world without leaving her home or
office – just like me.
How do I know? I know because each day my words, images, DVDs
and recordings are played all over the world – in places and countries
I’ve never even heard of.
Wouldn’t you like to have something like that happen in your life? And
be richly rewarded for it as well?
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